Friday Firesmith – Retirement Means Tired Again

I spent the last twenty-seven and a half years getting up way before dawn, going to bed early, making sure everything at work got done before I worried about home stuff, and generally throwing my life away one day at a time in the name of a career. I did things, I knew things, there are bridge projects out there that will outlive me by a hundred years, at the least, and there’s a lot to be proud of at the end of things. But things ended. It’s been two weeks now. There’s a new life out there, and new discoveries to be made. Here’s some of the newest ones.

Time. When there isn’t a clock to watch and there isn’t anyone telling you there’s a meeting or a conference, or there’s something happening somewhere you need to be, time takes on a new meaning. I lose track of what day of the week it is. Days fly by because I’m always doing what I want to do and never doing anything else. I watch movies early in the day. I drink coffee at night. I take naps. The dogs are going to be very well trained before it is all over with.

Yet I find lacking any sort of external pressure to get the things done that need to get done, they get done anyway, just not in the same frenetic I’ve-only-got-this-weekend-to-get-things-done activity. I can mow grass today, or tomorrow, or after I get done with something else, because weekends do not mean anything anymore.

I’m not a morning person. I spent most of my life as an early morning person but after two weeks I discovered I’m not, actually. Seven in the morning is beginning to look a lot like my wake up time, but if I sleep longer that’s okay, too. I stayed up last night until after eleven. The dogs are being pushed into a new routine, but that’s okay, because I have time to teach them. I’ve discovered I really love coffee in the morning, and during the day, too.

There’s something to be said for hanging out with other retirees. We have nowhere to go, all day to get there, and none of us are trying to get there any sooner than anyone else. There’s no reason to rush anymore. There’s no reason to hurry. There’s no reason to do something right this very instant. When I was working I planned meals and cooked food for several day and now I don’t.

The Keto Diet and I hooked up a week or so before I retired. The weight is dropping off me, and I’m getting into jeans I thought I had retired. I’m in better shape than I was two weeks ago. You have no idea how much stress you’re carrying, and how much you eat because of that stress, until it is gone. I don’t eat lunch some days because I’m not hungry. I don’t feel the urge to eat right now because I know I can later if I want.
I’m going to be ruined totally once I hang the hammock up in the woods. There’s going to be a day I go out there and just sit and watch the trees grow. I’ll let you know what it was like, if you want.

Take Care,

Mike writes regularly at his site:  The Hickory Head Hermit.
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6 thoughts on “Friday Firesmith – Retirement Means Tired Again”

  1. I retired 11 years ago, and I don’t know how I ever had time to hold a job! I do what I want. I build stuff, I go places, and I volunteer my time to help others. Retirement is great!

  2. John, I dropped off a refrigerator for a shelter for abused women yesterday. I think they might need me to help them deliver some stuff in my truck, and I offered. I can come and go as I please now, and I discovered it pleases me to help other people. I’m sleeping better now, too. I think this is the greatest thing ever.

  3. I can’t wait. I’m envious and I can’t wait. I detest getting up at 4:30 in the morning to make it to work on time, I too, am not really a morning person and have only been forced into being one by this servitude I’ve found myself in. I notice when I take time off, I stay up later each night and luxuriate in bed a little later each morning. Ahh, I can’t wait.

    • More than anything else, the decision not to make a decision on when to sleep and wake up is the best thing ever. I sleep longer and better when I do it when I feel like it.

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